Mine goes off all the time as I park on the street and happen to live on a bus route. Every time a bus, van or car with a loud exhaust goes past, the alarm goes off. I now just turn the alarm off - turn the ignition on so the lights all come on (but don't start the engine) twice, then lock the doors within 20 seconds. Alarm should be off then. I think it beeps 3 times to tell you.
the way your suggesting is only turning the ultra sonics off so that if you have dogs in the vehicle they wont set it off or if you leave the windows/sunroof open it wont go off but if some one does open a door then it will go off or the bonnet etc
could be the ultra sonics?
once the alarm has gone off and you unlock the car i think 3 beeps means the ultra sonics have gone off?
make sure they are positioned correctly? you can also swap the ultra sonic wires over, usually positioned under the passenger foot well
normally they are red-red and white-white just switch them round so you get red-white on both and that should de-sensitise them by about 50% i think
but does depening how manys beeps you are getting