Its not really cheating.
Its a nice picture, composition, focus, aperture etc etc etc.
You cant do all that with photoshop.
This is my point - you have to be able to take decent photos in the first place rather than relying on a program to be able to get a decent end shot!
I just think that you should be able to think about all the different settings (exposure, stop, use of filters, composition, ISO, white balance, spot or average metering etc etc etc) as you stand there and take the photo, not stick a camera on auto, press the button and go "it's alright, I'll sort it out later on the computer".
Like I said, all IMO.
(And I'm not implying that the OP didn't think about the shot, the above is general thoughts related to no-one in particular!)
I take the point that you can recreate different techniques in a darkroom but you wouldn't expect to do it with every single shot to make it decent, would you? I just think that people take photos then run the whole lot through PS to make them better because it's so easy compared to darkroom skill. It's good that people have the opportunity to experiment and learn a new skill, and I have no doubt that digital has allowed a much greater section of the public to improve their photography due to the vastly reduced cost of shooting and processing digital compared to film, but I still think that proper talent and skill is not something that you can recreate on a computer after the event.
IMO.