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Need advice - Kinda worried



  mx5
Basically, last night I was meant to be going out with the lads to watford, then realised I had forgotten my smart shoes so had to drive back home to pick them up (we were getting a cab from radlett)

On the way home I was on the left lane of the dual carriageway and pulled into the middle lane (like 50m gap between car infront and car behind, indicated, checked mirrors etc) Then as the traffic was slowing down (red traffic light ahead) the car behind me (Astra estate with 5 men in it) swerved out without indicating and then tried to wedge itself into the gap between me and the car infront.

The gap was less than a cars length so this forced me out into the right hand lane to avoid the car smashing into my side, no cars etc in the lane. I stopped at the traffic lights in the right hand lane.

As i was waiting at the light, a motorcyclist knocked on my window, so I opened it and he told me that I hadnt indicated and could have knocked him off, and I apologised and was explaining what had happened. During this time the silver astra had pulled out into my lane and stopped behind me. While I was talking to the motocyclist one of the men (white, 30 or so)had opened his door, ran up and punched me f*cking hard in the face, another door from the car behind then opened so i floored it (lights had changed) and got home as quickly as possible (my eyeball was actually bleeding etc).

Got it checked out later on last night, and had to go back this morning. Apparently he must have been wearing a ring or something as I have
"corneal abrasions and conjunctival hemmoraging" lol
Had some tests etc and good news is that retina etc is all intact. My eye is swollen shut and the white bit is all pure red (not jut bloodshot, actual red). Apparently it may have severed some of the drainage of the eye so going back on wednesday to have it checked up.

Worst part about it all was that i had both hands on the wheel and didnt even see the guy coming. (Im 17 btw, he was 30 or so - saw him in the front passenger seat when they were behind me)

Now the advice bit, not sure whether to report it to the police etc, as there is no cctv at those lights so not sure what good it will do. Im worried that if they do find the guys (cctv further up the road), it could escalate :(. Also worried that if they see my car around they will recognise it and f*ck it up.

Cant play rugby etc for a couple of weeks and it kinda ruined my mates bday night out. Im glad they didnt smash anything on my car though and just did the one punch, could have been much worse if I hadnt gotten out of there. I think they were just looking for trouble etc, but ive never been punched by an adult before so came as a bit of a shock.

/Rant. Sorry it was so long, never had something like this happen before so not sure what do to.
 

riz

ClioSport Club Member
  Jaguar XFR
~Unlucky mate, total cnuts. Good news your eye is ok. Did you get reg number of Astra? I would report it
 

The Boosh!

ClioSport Admin
  Elise, Duster
f**k me mate the guy sounded like a proper wanker... what did the motorcyclist do? was he still there? did you do anything to piss him off?

hope your alright man!
 

iimushroomzii

Toilet roll king
  Transit Connect.
Deffinately report it. Should have kept your windows up ;) Unlucky fella theres some right c***s on the road these days.
 
  330Ci (Fail)Sport
Report it. I doubt they'd go to the trouble of finding you or they would have chased you home tbh.

Prob a power trip, 5 of them in the car, and you're young. Either he was showing off or they were prob teasing him about a young driver cutting him up etc. Or they are all cnuts and need to be reported incase they act out again.

Some of the gene pool just cant be explained mate.
 
Dont let the cnuts get away with it.

I would report it.

Central locking FTW, Dont leave windows open at the lights in these sort of situations as well?
 

-J-

  RS2'ed 172 Cup
REPORT IT!

Defiantly, Where exactly did this happen? On the A41 at the Meridan Estate Traffic Lights? Probably the Pikey Scum that live on one of the Sites near Elstree, i had one try and put me off the road in his Toyota Land Cruiser the other week as he tried to cut into my lane.
 
  White clique
s**t that is really bad, definitely report it, its assault.

Be honest though, is there any more to this story? It seems a real overreaction, are you sure you hadnt cut the car up in any way, hand gestures etc?
 
  Scirocco 2.0 tsi
I may be wrong, but i suspect that you did something to them first to piss them off in the first place which caused this incident, especially being a 17 year old lad. Its not like people often get out of their car and go and punch someone for no reason. Not saying you did anything on purpose although you might of but i know when i was 17 i used to make mistakes driving that i didn't even realise (such as pulling out into the outside lane when i thought there was a safe gap) etc.

Anyway regardless of blame he has still assaulted you and it should be reported, however, if theres no CCTV, no witnesses and you have no numberplate for the car, i wouldn't bother.

The police will not do anything, and if they did find him, he has 4 people to back his story up and you've got noone. Other than that i'd just say if you see them again, follow them, find out where they live, then take some mates down to return the favour.

If you've got a witness then i'd report it.
 
  mx5
It happened on the A41 at the traffic lights near edgewarebury lane (before all the jewish shops).

I pulled down the window to speak to the motorbike guy and was still talking to him when the guy punched me.

Also i didnt really think about indicating, i didnt realise the astra was gna try and pull back in and i just had to swerve out to avoid a collision.

To motorcyclist wasnt that angry once he realised what had happened. I think he left pretty sharpish once the lights changed. He didnt know the people in the astra or anything.

If I do tell the police I doubt anything would happen though, unless they could get his numberplate off one of the traffic further up, but even then i dont know how i could prove it as the four other guys in the car would obviously deny it. Only witness i know of was the motorcyclist, there were other cars behind but didnt remember any numberplates etc, all happened very fast. Was so unexpected.


EDIT - In reply to above post: I honestly cant think of anything that I did that would have upset him. The only think i can think of is that when i got forced out into the right lane he might have thought i was overtaking him again, so got pissed off, but even that would be a ridiculous reaction.
 
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  Black Gold Trophy
F*ck me, that makes me incredibly thankful about an incident when I was 17.
I drove past a nightclub and some guy smashed my window. I was gutted at the time, but realised later on it could have been a lot worse, which is clearly true in your case!
I know others have already said it, but report it no questions asked, they might have been nicked, pulled over or caught on cctv somewhere else that evening in which case the police may be able to do something (for a change).
Regardless of whether you did something to p*ss him off, that would give no justification for a middle aged adult to hurt a teenager ffs!
 
  mx5
cheers everyone, thing ill pop down to hendon police station tomorrow so at least its on record.

Tbh it still could have been a lot worse, they could have fucked up my eye AND my car or got me out the car etc. By the time i got home it looked like i had been crying blood as there was a nice little trail going down my face.

The night was shaping up to be a goodun tho, til this happened :-(
 
  E87 118d M Sport
make sure you go to the police asap. preferably when your eye still looks bad! this will make the case more serious!hope you get it sorted out. and they get caught soon!
i wouldnt take the law into your own hands because that will make it worse if they see you again.
 
  mx5
ended up phoning the police just now, my mum insisted.
I got a reference number and two police officers are coming round some time tonight, tbh it just seems like a lot of hassle
 
  E87 118d M Sport
im sure nothing will be done. but at the end of the day if it turns into a serial face punching syndrome and they get caught then you will be able to prosecute i expect as the police have photographic evidence (or they will do)
 

Jamie

ClioSport Club Member
May be hassle but you cant have physco's like that wandering round getting out at traffic lights punching people in the face.

Such a shame that it happened and I hope it doesn't take too long to recover.
 
  mx5
cheers mate, should be fine in a couple of weeks aparently. The only thing which could be bad is if the drainage thing is severed, then would probs need an operation, but the eye specialist that I saw this morning said he was fairly sure it wasnt.
 
  182 FF
you did the best thing mate, u never know they may do this all the time. hope your eye gets better and they catch the scum who did this to you
 
  Titanium 182
There isn't really an excuse for a middle aged man punching a teenager imo...

I had lacerations to one of my eyes but that was from it being cut by some metal, most painfull thing ever as when you move your eye the wound rubs on your eyelid and causes f**king agony!

Mine healed after about 4-5 days buddy I hope you feel better soon.
 
  Clio182, Mini Cooper 1275
Hey Dude sorry to hear about this shocking incident, i just thought i would write a little bit about what happened to me recently!. . . . . . .im 27 and live in bristol, i was leaving a friends house at about 8am, she lives on a small road. As i came to a junction on this narrow street I had to slightly put my nose out to make sure nothing was coming. As i did this a fella in a brand new corsa came down the road pretty fast, he presumably thought i was pulling out and braked hard, so he wound down his window and proceeded to call me every name under the sun. At this point i was very calm and simply said to the 30 something year old fella that there was no harm done and we should both forget about it. He didnt want that and called me a prick!! anyone that knows me will know just how much this pisses me off( call me anything but not a prick!) So i started to return the verbal onslaught, With that the guy stopped in the middle of the road and got out of his shitty corsa, i was out of my car in a second and was standing nose to nose with him. . . . . . .he punched me square in the face! i didnt see the passenger in the corsa until this point but he startd to get out aswell, i span round the guy who had just hit me and closed the door on the passenger telling him not to get involved, he called me a prick too. . . . . .well i lost it and as he had his window down i gave him a knuckle sandwich of my own. i was screaming and shouting at this point i was outraged at the whole affair. The driver was looking on a little confused and the passenger was very shocked and was telling the driver that i was a nutter and that they should get out of there. i wanted to fight them both!!!(im a slim guy and dont usually get angry but apparently i do get crazy eyes) So the driver got back in his car and started back up the road, i wasnt finished and chased them on foot giving the drivers door a few kicks along the way. they looked pretty worried. that night i was convinced i would be getting a visit by the police but they never showed. two days later i saw the corsa and waited by it for the driver to come back, he did and he recognised me instantly and to my amazement he started saying how sorry he was for the other day and that he was way out of line. i couldnt believe it i was gonna offer him some money to repair his door, i felf terrible about it. after a short chat he shook my hand and went on his way in his corsa with a perfect imprint of my shoe still in the door.
there is no real reason to tell you this, im not proud of it and its not clever however if you get into a similar situation again i can only reccomend that you remain calm but if that fails and they still want to fight you, just act crazy!!
 
  Monaco Blue 172 (56/468)
defo report it - too many idiots around these days.....at least there was no damage to your car and no lasting damage to your eye! use to live in mill hill, sounds like moving to sunny devon was the right choice.........
 
  mx5
Cheers for the comments everyone,rly appreciate it. Eye should be better in a week or so.

Did the police come round? I bet not
good shout lol, they didnt come last night, then phoned this morning to get more details. doubt that anything is gna come of it tbh

There isn't really an excuse for a middle aged man punching a teenager imo...

I had lacerations to one of my eyes but that was from it being cut by some metal, most painfull thing ever as when you move your eye the wound rubs on your eyelid and causes f**king agony!

Mine healed after about 4-5 days buddy I hope you feel better soon.
yea omd its horrible, also keep waking up with my eye glued shut from the gunge lol, been taking antibiotics etc so should clear up soon.

true love for your car
'glad they foked me up and not my car' haha

feel for ye thow mate, was blatently there fault in the first place
knowsit:) tbh i would have been a lot more pissed off if they had kicked some panels in and I had to go through insurance etc, I hate being car-less


defo report it - too many idiots around these days.....at least there was no damage to your car and no lasting damage to your eye! use to live in mill hill, sounds like moving to sunny devon was the right choice.........

Lol this actually happened in edgeware. where abouts in Mill Hill did you use to live? I live near the broadway. Tbh it hasnt really changed, always been a bit rough at night - nothing compared burnt oak etc tho.

Also Wannabe182Owner, cheers, but even with crazy eyes the five of them would have killed me :) Glad i got out of there tbh
 
  Monaco Blue 172 (56/468)
use to live the other side of the roundabout at the top of the broadway, victoria road. ur right about burnt oak tho lol..........
 
  ibiza cupra
good thing to report it but if nothing comes of it then leave it a while untill he forgets about it then take matters into your own hands and petrol bomb his astra lol.
hope your eyes better though mate.
 
  Monaco 172 + mk1 RSi
get your buddys or a cupple of cars full lol, go find him (Slim chance), and do the same to him.

good job you got out of there aswell with 5 of them, driving under pressure FTW, it could have been worse you could have stalled it lol glad your ok though.

jamie
 
  Clio TCe + Corsa VXR
Driving off was the best thing you could do imo. When i was 17 i got jumped at the cash machine by 2 chavs (apparently mistaken identity !! ) who roughed me up with a few punches to the face. It was a classic case of fight or flight and i decided to fight. I jumped back in my car and sped after one of them ,he ran across the road ahead of me , so hit him with my ford escort and broke the b*****ds ankle ! A hefty fine, criminal record and 6 points was my reward for taking the law into my own hands . Moral of the story is your f****d if you do and f****d if you dont lol !
 
  320d
Driving off was the best thing you could do imo. When i was 17 i got jumped at the cash machine by 2 chavs (apparently mistaken identity !! ) who roughed me up with a few punches to the face. It was a classic case of fight or flight and i decided to fight. I jumped back in my car and sped after one of them ,he ran across the road ahead of me , so hit him with my ford escort and broke the b*****ds ankle ! A hefty fine, criminal record and 6 points was my reward for taking the law into my own hands . Moral of the story is your f****d if you do and f****d if you dont lol !

Yeh mate you can't win unfortunately. Personally I don't think you where out of order tbh they assulted you for no reason and you ran them over in retalitation, had this been one on one i'd have said you where in the wrong but they went 2 on 1 to you so you got a mate, namely your escort :)
 
  Family Bus
There are some ridicously thuggish oafs in this world

Absolutely abhorrant imo. Report the b******s.
 
  mx5
Cheers for all the comments, quick update to for you - Went to hopsital again today for a check up, all the cuts on the eyeball are healing up fine, same with the cuts on my eyelid.
Only problem was that the skin was healing over my tear duct, but that got sorted out this morning so all is well. The ring rly f*cked me up lol :eek:

Been driving like a bit of a granny since, thanking people for every little thing that happens etc. Going to play rugby this weekend and see how it goes.

Also got a letter from the police this morning saying they havent found anyone but will ring if they do - pretty generic lol
 


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