the 1.2's handle pretty well for what they are, lack of steering feel from the over asisted PAS is a bit weird but the fact it shares the same stiff bodyshell and chassis of the 172/182 means they do handle pretty well.
chances are now in 2012 though that most of them are running cheap pattern part springs after numerous MOT failures and cheap patern part dampers, budget tyres, worn steering parts etc so they are never gonna be great.
Sounds like the OP is throwing it into wet roundabouts far too fast and wondering why it doesnt handle like a clio 200!!