What are you trying to do?
transfer all my old photos etc from my old jet to the iphone.
The iPhone doesn't support native bluetooth file transfer like most other modern phones... the reason behind this is that the iPhone is effectively a rather large capacity iPod... therefore Apple, wanting to protect the iTunes part of the business, have disabled file transfer via bluetooth on the iPhone to prevent people from sharing music (which is illegal), the downside of this, is that it also prevents genuine uses like transferring other files like photos.