Going from et45 to et42 will mean it sticks out 3mm further.
Going from et45 to et38 will mean it sticks out 7mm further... U get the idea.
Hmmm.. I'm not 100% but I'm pretty sure, Offset controls the face of the wheels (how far it sticks out exterior wise). The width goes inwords, closer to the car and can result in catching the inside of the arch if too wide or wrong offset. Might be wrong but pretty sure that's correct. The Width shouldn't effect the offset size as that wouldn't make sense if you get me?