buy a decent fitting kit, not the cheapest one you can find, the gaskets last far less than good ones, and they're a b**ch to get to.
Bolting it up solid will just mean it comes loose due to engine moving back and forth
I just use a Pug 406 2.0 Gasket - with the proper 'cups' in the manifold. Then two solid bolts with washers and nuts. I put them as tight as they will go, then I have my actual flexi joint on the downpipe lower down that was added in. As said though, ive got pretty much zero engine movement..
Before when I only had four mounts and used the springs on the joint and had no flexi joint I used to go through gaskets every trackday with the amount of engine movement..