I wouldn't try to sue her/take her to court, you said yourself she probably has little/no money. So all that will happen is you'll end up dragging the process out and probably not get anything from it.
I feel for you, I really do, but best thing you can do now is move on and get your car fixed up as best as possible.
She will have her car turned into a cube, as I very much doubt she will pay to have it released. I thought driving uninsured was an instant ban btw, you said she will be getting 6 points?!
As has been said though, with regards to the liability of the crash, I would actually say it was 50/50 at best, because you were supposed to give way, if you could see or not is irrelevant.