Its easy really. Get a FF & Cup pack, its really not as harsh as you might think. Most of the time (during general driving) its surprisingly refined and only crashes over the massive craters you would try and avoid anyway.
I test drove 2 200s, one with and one without the Recaros. Now its these seats that will ruin the ride quality IMO. I went without them, as at £900 they are expensive and a lot (I Mean ALOT) firmer than the standard seats. If you can live with the harshness, or just plan on running the car at weekends fair enough, but I use mine daily and couldn't see them being helpful to me.
The standard seats are just as body hugging, but a lot more pleasant to live with in everyday driving. I should know, I've covered 5000 miles in just over 3 months.
Other options, go with the Monitorpack. You get the Monitor pack (Duh) and the bluetooth stereo upgrade which is mint. Other than that up to you, I wished I specced the headlight upgrade now though.
No problems at all with mine, engines is freeing up nicely now, and starting to return half decent fuel economy (regularly getting 29mpg+ on my commute now).