I kinda agree, my Clio is a long term car for me, so what i look at is not throwing money at pointless mods, but improving things as they wear out, make the car better to drive and make it indevidual (sp) as thats what moddings all about really
example iv fitted Prolines on mine, but instead of uprating the shocks iv fitted new standard Renaultsport ones from Renault, and it gives a brilliant compremise between better handling and still retaining comfort. It corners faster, feels much better and is only a tiny bit of a harder ride, it doesn't look far odd standard and still has no problem with speed bumps.
Same with my wheels, iv kept the standatrd f1's but sprayed them a slightly darker colour, which i think looks really nice
the next things im looking at is a remap( as when mine was on the rollers my RR guy said i will get better driveablilty with a remap due to my std map not being too great) and matched inlets and a panel filter with relocated feeds, not to get a load more power but simply to improve the driving experience, the same way il never upgrade to 4pots when the uprated discs pads and hoses i have now stop the car on a 6pence, yes it would stop faster with them, but the cost is too much.
thats my point on modding, to improve the overall experience for my benefit, no one elses