In case anyone who doesn't know what it is is wondering why its called "fly by wire", its that it came from the aircraft industry. Planes used to have direct linkages between the cockpit controls and the control surfaces on the wings and the tail. Then they moved to hydraulics, like hydraulic brakes, with the problem that if your engines stopped you had no hydraulic pressure so you couldn't even try to glide to a safe landing. But modern aircraft now have a computer reading the positions of the cockpit controls and sending the appropriate commands to hydraulic and/or electric motors that push the control surfaces to the appropriate positions. That allows the computer to make the cockpit controls more or less sensitive depending on speed, and it allows the computer to interfere if it thinks the pilot has done something stupid that will crash the plane. This has undoubtedly prevented some planes from crashing, but in one notorious incident it resulted in an Airbus crashing because the programming of the computer resulted in the plane over-riding the pilot in a circumstance where what the pilot tried to do would have gotten the plane out of trouble.
The first they put into cars was an electronic throttle. TBW - throttle by wire. If it breaks the worse that can happen is that you're stuck on the side of the road. They tell you its to allow cruise control, but its thinking ahead to makes speed control possible too. You won't be able to exceed the speed limit, the car won't let you. You won't be able to not slow down for the corner, or the roadworks, or the pedestrian crossing, the car will force you to.
The next thing is electronic brakes. BBW - brake by wire. That starts getting scary. What if it fails and the brakes fail to get your foot's instruction that you want or need to stop. Maybe we need radar collision prevention before we do that one. The one after that is electronic steering. SBW - steer by wire. That way its easy to engineer left and right-hand drive, and there's no need for a collapsing steering column, and they can make it adjustable. And they can have the radar avoiding crashes. And they can completely take away control of the car from the driver and put it in the hands of computers that will never crash. You believe they can program computers so they do a better job of driving your car than you can, don't you? They do.