That's the problem. Finding the room.
I'm still pissed that there isn't an option to set up a server/room to house a group of friends to play. Like a private lobby.
Still, there should be a few hardcore servers that are practically empty to join. There was last night when I went on.
I don't have the cable from controller to headset so didn't have a mic either, yet I had this one guy in my squad last night who was sitting behind my location and going "Scoootchio. Scoootchio." in a foreign language. I'd guess Iraqi. Seriously. He was asking for ammo to begin with but then just sat through the rest of the game talking to me in a language I couldn't understand, "Scoootchio?"
Just f*ck off mate.