got rid of the problem today
I used some high temp silicone on the plenum-lower inlet area (below and above the gasket-about 1-1,5mm thick squeezed out of the tube, surrounding each inlet), and bought the missing bolt holding the plenum.
the noise is gone, and the "revvin' when braking" initial problem also solved.
however, the idle got down a few times to about 600rpm (when coming off the throttle) for the first 10-15 mins of driving but now seems fine, although it drops to idle a bit quicker than before.. I hope this won't become a problem when the engine is cold
I guess when messing with the TB and inlets weird stuff happens :S