Already posted a response to one of your threads, how can anyone offer any definite advice or make any informed diagnosis without the relevant information.....To my knowledge no one on here is psychic.....
The fact your female has no bearing on your ability to convey information, although from what I've read in your later threads regarding the aerial connection, it may be an idea to leave the work for someone who knows what they are doing....
I would say your best course of action would be to register on TA & introduce yourself as a girl....Then in the section marked 'general car audio', request help regarding these issues....I would expect members will offer to pop round & sort your stereo for tea & cakes or beer tokens....
TalkAudio I will watch for your thread appearing....