thanks for the comments guys, i see sense in the opinions both ways,
i really don't want to quit on it, to get it to where it is now has required nearly every saturday (and a fair few sundays) over the past 2 years, i really don't want to have wasted my time, however i think sometimes you have to look at things and think about maybe cutting your losses.
i had doubts when i lived closer to the car, but since i initially moved 20miles away it was a struggle. Now i work 100miles away during the week, and have to spend weekends with the missus its even harder. i have lost interest because i haven't seen or heard about any progress, the fact it has come to a halt annoys me.
although there is no desperate rush on it i contacted my bodyshop mate to see how things are going and only 2hrs work has been done in 6-8weeks. with all the above thoughts in mind i have put some plans into progress
i have decided to pull my car out of my mates bodyshop, its not because i don't want him doing the work, (as i said there is no rush), its just i need to have everything infront of me to help me make a decision. hopefully next weekend i will be loading the car and all of the bits onto a trailer and taking it back to my house, it will then be put away in the garage. It will probably stay here for a fair while due to holidays and looking for houses and jobs (for the missus) in Milton Keynes.
I will probably then make the decision what i want to do with it, unless i all of a sudden make a decision off the cuff between now and then....
although one thing has been decided, if the build continues it will possibly be re-thought, meaning it would probably take longer, i would look at making it even better again, weld in cage, dash re-think possibly, etc etc, also i would hope things should be easier once i am in MK as a lot of companys are nearby, and also people that know the car, but we will see
more comments and opinions welcome, i really do value the opinions and points people are making