lol good to see all the girls getting pissy again. I own and xboxone and had a 360, I do not have a PS4 and didn't have a PS3, however have played on them through mates etc.
I'm with DK regards the update, it's hardley what I'd call epic. It's just made the console a little bit better and argualbly brought it closer to a position it should have been at launch.
The PS4 controller isn't exactly "next gen" though, it's got some light on it (yay?!) and a speaker, which Nintendo put on the Wii Controllers god knows how many years ago. The only real difference is that it has a touchpad which I'm yet to notice has any real use for (same as the light).
Xbox hasn't changed thier controller much as it doesn't need to. The xbox next gen controller is Kinect.
Personally I much prefer the xbox controller, but that doesn't mean I hate the PS4.
Also, in DK's defence it does seem he is only saying negative comments when others are picking holes in everything he says, then has to justify what has been said which makes it come across as somewhat repetative.