I used to have a CDA-117ri HU with the APF-D102RE lead, which allowed the dash display to work in conjunction with the stalk controls, and even controlled my iPhone too.
Sadly the CDA-117ri developed a fault whereby no sound was being output through the iPhone channel (CD / Aux / Tuner all worked fine) so instead of paying to have it fixed I just bought a new HU - I think I went with the CDE-193BT. In comparison to the old unit I had it feels half the quality and then some. But dash display and stalk controls still work, and iPhone functionality is back as it was before, and that's all I wanted.
I still have the old HU, I'll put it up for sale one day and see if there's any interest.