I suppose you're all medics with M60s?
BC2 isn't popular compared to CODMW2, especially on Steam. CODMW2 remains in the top 5 played every day, whilst BC2 is nowhere to be seen.
I can understand where you are coming from (I enjoy the squad based objectives, with use of vehicles too) but multiplayer in COD is a lot more refined. EA need to stop putting out games without bug testing them thoroughly, because it loses them a lot of players. I was annoyed I had spent £25-30 on a game that worked from time to time, crash frequently or would just plain boot me out of the game. I lost patience after a couple of weeks, and haven't looked back.
Anyway, my point is I hope EA have learned from their former mistakes. I'm still currently deciding whether to buy this game or not... I suppose you can give me an informed decision this weekend. A comparison with BFBC2 and CODMW2 multiplayer modes would be helpful
Edit: BFBC2 destructive environment is amazing though.